USJR Scandal 2013: Sexual intercourse should be a private matter

University of San Jose-Recoletos, the Cebu-based educational institutional that has been tarnished by someone who uploaded a sexual intercourse video involving a student of the USJR.

University of San Jose-Recoletos, the Cebu-based educational institutional that has been tarnished by the former boyfriend of the woman involved on the video.

NOTE: Apologies, the male is studying at the University of Cebu – Maritime Education Training Center in Mambaling Cebu City and when the video was recorded, he was studying at the University of the Visayas in Downtown Cebu City, according to several sources. USJ-R school administration has announced that the girl will continue her internship and can graduate this coming March.

It has been the main discussion all over Cebu and in the cyberspace on what happened to the University of San Jose-Recoletos where someone uploaded a sexual intercourse video involving a student from that said university in the cyberspace. Since Thursday evening, my Facebook and Twitter new feeds have been flooded with comments and tweets from my friends about the viral sexual intercourse video which consists of not only one part, but allegedly, six parts. I myself watched the partial part of the video and after I watched that part of the video, I feel angry especially to the former boyfriend of the woman involved who uploaded the video as he never think the consequences of his actions.

On the part of the female student, the dissemination of that video was a big blow not only to her, but also to her family. The male whom she committed an intercourse was his boyfriend and according to several sources, the video was uploaded by her former boyfriend as a revenge of their separation. The male is studying at the University of Cebu – Maritime Education Training Center in Mambaling Cebu City, according to several sources I gathered.

I think the moment the video was recorded was a fatal mistake. That female student from USJ-R should have took her uniform off totally before the sexual intercourse and that fatal mistake put USJ-R into a subject of ridicule especially those who are narrow-minded people. That male student allegedly from UC-METC should have never initiated a sexual intercourse with the female USJ-R student especially during school hours and instead if they want to have an intercourse, they should have done it privately during weekends.

I know that it was painful especially to the female student from USJ-R, but the damage has already been done and all we can do is to help her to recover from the traumatic parts of her life destroyed by a certain uploader with unknown specific reasons as of this moment. To the cybercitizens who wants to watch the video more (or those who wants to watch the video for the first time), I am asking you to stop from watching and spreading the viral video because for every watching a scandalous video, it is like that you tarnish his/her dignity in an indirect manner.

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274 thoughts on “USJR Scandal 2013: Sexual intercourse should be a private matter

  1. Gi pistahan sa among baranggay gi tapok an pa gud ang ilang balay

  2. wala nai video ani? hehehe

  3. USJR SCANDAL. alam ko po kong sino ang nag upload sa facebook at ang nag kalat ng vedio sorry po na di ko sinabi ka agad na hindi ni nakaw ang cellphone ng boy friend mo kusa nyang binigay sa kan yang kaybigan at ipinakalat sa iba nyang kaybigan at ang kanyang kaybigan ang nag upload sa facebook at isa ako sa barkada itago lang ninyo ang aking pangalan sa Bodots itong accound na e2 ai hindi sa akin nang gamit lang ako para hindi ako ma sangkot sa kaso na iyan yon lang po ang ma itotolong ko sayo e share nyo po to.

  4. mao nay gi ingon nga gaba rana nila sa ilang mga ginikanan. gipa skwela sa mga parents, nag dahum ang mga ginikanan nga naa sa skwelahan ilang anak, naa diay sa kwarto kuyog ang uyab.

  5. To GOD be the Glory…………………….. just pray for them

  6. the writer has good intentions, but i’m sorry he should’ve done it in cebuano/bisaya. please review basic english.

  7. Not all fruit in one tree will be harvest and is rotten free.Think it twice when we point one finger to other person, look at the four fingers it pointed back on us. So, Forgiveness and Acceptance our motto is to move forward…ADELANTE!

  8. korek k dyan. maanad ng mga batan on mgbuhat og ing ana ky inyo labanan bsag sayop ila gbuhat maka ingon n cla nga sakto. dpat isulte ana nla MERESE!!. ug naulaw pna ni sibat nana wna na pkita, ng p interview pman gni ky gsto mo graduate mura lag y nhitabo.

  9. nahitabu nah ang dli dapat mahitabo.. so stop nah anang issue.ha…let’s pray nalng

  10. I don’t know why we being so hypocrite! Who’s not doing it (intercourse, perse)?! It’s just a pity that the phone was supposedly stolen and that was the cause of all these brouhaha. Fact of the matter is, I’m doing it, you’re doing it or your just so naive to admit it and everyone is doing it! Pity? maybe. Scrutinize?! dude, such prejudice? It’s either your pathetic or that your just miserable, why? Just like the bible, who doesn’t have a sin shall be the first one to cast the stone. I am not condoning the act of recording the act but as human beings what we can extend is pity for both of them.

  11. yeah right. writing about it in a blog is such a non-exploitative act. obviously, you were after the page views. and surely you watched the whole video too. hipokrito ka totoy.

  12. Why people judged easily for one’s mistakes they’re not even look at their self in a mirror. We forgot that time will fade away, just like other schools when they have scandals of their own years ago

  13. You DONT want us to watch the sex video BUT you yourself watch it..how fool are you?such a stupid suggestions..

  14. mao na ron, maong dili jud mo asenso atong pagpamoyo diri sa kalibutan,kay mga ignorante mn ta.. patan-awa ug porn site diba grabi kau mka totok sa video, kay kaila mn ta sa school nga naa sa sex video scandal hala comentaryo dayon.. maayo pag tabangan nalang nato siya pag ampo para maka recover dayon.. sa nanaway sa video hinaut ko nga dili sad na nimu buhaton.. basin someday ma Bluetooth or ma post sad na imng video sa networking site.

  15. may i know the title of the video? where can I watch it?

  16. wla moy katungod na mo judge sa usa ka tawo na bati na cya ky na-ay scandal.bsag kita na-a mantay scandal gi delete lang daun.magpakatoto-o nlang ta gud.di sad maau na dli pgraduaton ang girl .dli man cya nagpost sa video scandal.maong nang dli cya bad na girl ky dli cya mkatung2x sa college kung wla pa cyay huna2x na maau.happy lang den kompyansa gamay maong nidako.salbahis nang na uopload sa videooooo.

  17. wla moy katungod na mo judge sa usa ka tawo na bati na cya ky na-ay scandal.bsag kita na-a mantay scandal gi delete lang daun.magpakatoto-o nlang ta gud.di sad maau na dli pgraduaton ang girl .dli man cya nagpost sa video scandal.maong nang dli cya bad na girl .dli cya mkatung2x sa college kung wla pa cyay huna2x na maau.happy lang den kompyansa gamay maong nidako.salbahis nang na upload sa videooooo.

  18. louya sa inyung classmate uie Katag ba kaau ! ang video

  19. abot sa paknaan uie

  20. unya kamao mo ato? be?

  21. Nobody’s perfect dudes!!!don’t be the great pretender’s!!! God forgives those who will seek forgiveness!!Even the prostitutes!!!

    My advise to the couple especially to the girl: Just seek Jesus refuge and ask for reconciliation and forgiveness and sin no more!!!

  22. hay naunsa namn intawon ning panahon ron d na mabangbang…
    1. nganong gipagawas sa tv patrol? syempre mao na ila trabaho mabati or nindot ang
    balita naa cla freedom mopagawas ana be open-minded of dat.
    2. damay ang school? natural lng na ky lain-lain ug opinion ang mga tawo ug mas daghang tawo ang sirado ug mga hunahuna ug syempre wla mn sila kaila anang bayhana ug ang nailhan ang uniform ra mn sa school so natural reaction lng nga mahapak gyd sa school ang ila kabuang ug may lng unta sa school lng ang problema ky damay ang mga studyante sa school ma bully or d malikayan ma look down sa uban ingon ana ka unfair ang kinabuhi sayop sa usa damay tanan you like it or not mao nay reality…
    3. ug parte sa laki im not sure kn siya ga-upload sa vid ha! ky unsa mn siya bato nlng gyd di siya mauwaw? proud siya ma-eskandalo? proud siya pistahan siya sa internet? kon revenge mn gani iya purpose sa babaye kato ra vid nga ang babaye ra ang nakita iya i-upload dli niya iapil ang vid nga klaro au siya unsay mapala niya makakwarta siya sa iya gibuhat? dli ba nagpakauwaw sd siya sa iya kaugalingon ug labi na sa iya pamilya, ngano kn makahibaw iya pamilya di kaha siya masantako sa iya amahan, igsoon, uyoan ug uban pa laki sa iya pamilya? ngano d siya pakauwaw sa ila pamilya? ngano wlay babaye sa iya pamilya? pakauwaw ghapon na sa side sa laki.. unsa mn siya porno ky wla nlng gyoy uwaw? if siya mn gani ga-upload maypa iya nlng gibaligya iya vid kn mao mn gani na nakakakwarta pa cya d ky gipakalat nya for free…
    4. ug sa babaye: intawon nganong ning sugot mn ntwn ka nga mag video oi? may nlng unta to’g hidden camera lng ky makaingon ta/ko kaluoy sa babaye pero with permission mn na nya so mao nanang resulta, unsa mn ntwn nakaon nmo oi wa gyd huna-huan unsay posibleng mahitabo nga intawon kadaghan na sa mga scandal nga ingon ana nganong wla nlng gyd maglikay among-among lng gyd sa pamilya… leksyon nana niya ky tinuyoan mn na nya dapat kahibw siyang molingkawas ana ug di na angay simpateyahan binuhatan ug tinoyuan na niya so mirisi nya walay buang ginikanan mo am-am ana sitwasyona hipocrito ra kaau mo d mo moulbo inyo kaspa sa ingon ana nga sitwasyon sa ako na giingon kana kn hidden camera pa na or wlay kalibutan ang babaye kana excuse cguro na pro intawon ghimo mn nilang for fun nang butanga so mao nani fun gyd tinood pwerte gud daghana na fun, ghimo nang fun sa internet ug gadgets. di nana mabawi pa na scattered na maau pasahay na gd maau pwrte gyd daghana na fun sa ila gbuhat nga fun…it takes time nga mawa ning isyuha may lang naay lain nga scandal mogawas ky makacovered ning isyuha… pro sa mga nahitungdan part nana sa ila bad memories d nana mapapas… di na namn gyd ni mapugngan ang pakipagsex sa mga batan on rn dapat kahibaw mo sa limitation, always think negative outcome kn naa mn gani mo planong kabuang para wlay bulolyaso ba ug kamo ra sd magsuffered sa consequences ana kamo ray labing makaluluoy… BE AWARE intawon aron walay dakong pagmahay sa kaulahian sa inyong kabuang.

  23. Malouy sad aning student ako lang na maayo ipa graduate lang ipa clear lang ang iya transcript of record na ni graduate siya para sad mak move on for the future.

  24. KAYATAG ENGLISH OIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIII!!!!

  25. joseph, what is the procedure for writing online articles?

  26. This is all i can say ..

    PAG-AMPO NGA MAHUMAN NANING TRAUMAHA !!

  27. Di nalang gyud ni daginoton kay makadaot ni sa dungog sa kadaghanan. Usa lang ang naghimo, ang tibuok eskwelahan ang nadamay.

  28. Masyado kasing excited sa buhay asawa. Face the repercussions.

  29. …was just reading this article…and i realized ..i was wrong …so sorry for that …luoy man ang girl..she’s soon to graduate ..nxt month respectively…kadtung laking ga upload maoi lami kaau patyun..ge guba nia ang life sa girl ..ug ang reputation sa skul..and sa mga taw..dli natu ma blame ang girl..maybe nasaup sia in that manner but remember GOD said..those hu have not sin yet ..be the first to throw a stone..would you dare to throw a stone???that implies that we’re not perfect..so lets just pray for her recovery ..stop the stupid crap!! move on na ta ani nga issue..pls..for her and for the school.. :(

  30. correct I agree that !

  31. You are consenting the action. Bottom line: never record any sexual activity unless your intention is to publicize it. Kindly proofread your article for grammatical errors before posting.

  32. aw

  33. This is really f*cked up(sorry for the word used) but this b*tch knows fully that there was a video, what kind of dean’s lister would even do that kung may utak siya. She reaps what she sowed. Tanga tlga na babae, tapos ang daming tao na sympathetic sa kanya? What for? Those why says na “kawawa siya” ay yung mga tanga na tao na hindi gumagamit ng utak. Bat ka maawa sa kagagawan niya its the same as saying na kawawa ang magnanakaw kasi nakulong.. hahay d ko alam kung ganito tlga ka bobo o nagiging mas bobo pa yung utak ng mga pinoy dyan.

  34. Grbhe.ts realy realy ashame.dey,bring d name of.sch0l.tchrs,n fel0w studnts.im very much angry.wd ds

  35. Grbhea.p0d.,di0s k0.kafaet.nganu nag unif0rm man.ntawn.2 b.p0pular??yan p0pular na sa nangyari.ts very very ashame.sira ul0.tlaga lalaking un.tr0ma.sa babae yan.,.dala nla pangalan ng.sch0l.faculty staf.n fel0w studnts

  36. this blog should be revised..masyado na emphasized po yun “sexual intercourse”.paulit-ulit..parang dinidiin pa lalo..tsk tsk..

  37. Pwede man unta to sila mag jerjer nga dili naka uniform, ning sikat nalng nu-on ang School sa ilang advertise, Hina-ut unta nga mahimong lesson sa mga kabatan-unan ang nahitabo sa ila aron dili na mausab nga himu-on nila ang ingon aning butang samtang nag-eskwela.

  38. Naunsa! mental sickness? premarital sex? unsa ka catholic church personified? anti rh bill pud ka no? kamatay.

  39. mao jud!! nobody is perfect!!!

  40. If the school admin and student government body and its student havent reacted loudly at it in first place, posting in facebook and forwarding text messages to delete the video for the integrity of the school it wouldnt have reached such exposure and fame it has attained right now. There are a lot of people who were not aware (yes people in the corporate like us and whoever else out there) of it before but ever since they cried about it then it would be synonymous to condemning the girl and their uniform. Saying things like if you have still respect to other school, if it happens to your school, etc …It is a bad move for the school itself I must say.

    Ive seen a lot of scandals involving school uniforms, i even remember the one girl wearing her uniform (a very famous uniform of a famous school in cebu) while doing sexual acts but the community havent heard any public comments from the school.. and eventually it died out like nothing happened.

  41. ako nalay malungkot sa ginikanan geunsa na pagpadako mao nay paskwelahun ug lagyo ! para lang maka graduate ug nindot nga skwelahan ! unya resulta ,, maypa public bahalag duol maka monitor pa mo … GBU!

  42. FORGIVE MEANS TO FORGET EVERYTHING … Let us forgive for what they did… Like God forgive us at the cross 2 thousands years ago… Let’s pray both of them to not do it again and to face bravely…

  43. ako nalang malooy sa ginikanan aning mga tawhana.. gipaskwelag tarong nga skwelahan ing-ani maoy nahitabo… basin ang mga ginikanan ani namaligya pag kabaw pambayad sa tuition.. hinaguan intawon asa lang napadulong… looy kaayo ang pamilya di lang sa babaye pati sa lalaki.. kay grabemg kaulaw pud intawon ani…

  44. hoi! maong niabot mo ani nga site kay gusto sad mo motan-aw! ingna ko’g bakak. pareho ra ta tanan ug instinct. ayaw nalang mo’g comment, mauwaw sad mos inyong anino ui!!! hahahaha… nipahiyom ang kanahan kay naigo…..

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